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  Ariel Castro found dead in his cell . .

  by nicolaou in

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  2. current

  not many details at present... .

  http://m.bbc.co.uk/news/23955379#tweet878077.

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  Black Sheep

  Will they have the funeral at his Mum's Kingdom Hall?
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  Is Jehovah a man that lived on a mountain?

  by bytheirworks in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  when moses met jehovah, he was on a mountain.. .

  "for i have not dwelt in an house since the days that i brought up israel.

  " - i chronicles 17:5. .

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  Black Sheep

  Don't go driving yourself nuts trying to make sense of something nonsensical.
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  Reverse-Witnessing leaves me mentally and emotionally drained...

  by ILoveTTATT in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi dear friends!.

  i am doing some stealth reverse-witnessing, and i have succeeded in at least two people seeing ttatt, one being my friend and the other being my dad (although my dad has a longer route to take to exit the wts, and i have to slowly chip away at the illusion).... the illusion of jw's is very strong.

  they give an illusion of being moral and decent people, and that may be true just because the majority of the people they attract are just being deceived, or i really like to believe that and hope for the best.. what i hate and leaves me emotionally drained are jw apologists.

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  Black Sheep

  what can help me not be so shaken by my reverse witnessing and JW apologetics?

  Don't answer their questions.

  They are the ones claiming to have all the answers, so require them to provide the proofs for their answers to your question.

  Guilt is good. Make them feel guilty for not answering your question.

  Never ask a question unless you know they don't have a sane answer for it.

  Don't make statements unless you know that they know that your statement is backed up by literature that they profess to trust .... preferably literature that is available immediately, (on their own bookshelf is best).

  Remember at all times that it is not you that requires an excuse to stop worshipping a god that is hiding in his privey, it is up to them to explain why they still carry on accepting instructions from a bunch of Brooklyn religious nutters when that god never told them anything miraculous that actually happened .... ever.
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  hmm...not sure what to do...

  by wizardca in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  the wife and i found out today she is preggo!

  we aren't going to share the blessed news with family until the end of the first trimester later this year...if we can hold out and keep it a secret until then.

  but i don't know what to do with my jw fam.

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  Black Sheep

  Behave like any normal human would. If some of your rellies want to behave like cult members, that is their choice and they have to find a way to sleep at night.
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  has shunning been downplayed?

  by chickpea in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  several times over the course of a year or so, jws from the kh i attended have been downright chatty during happenstance crossing of paths... .

  wth is up with that?

  i have no grudges against any of them, but it is confusing as all get out to have left the cult as an ardent supporter of my out, open, front page headlining transgender son, becoming vocally and decidely apostate knowing i was dead to them... now after at least a half decade out, to have them chummy-ing up to me in a check-out line.... frankly, i would rather they look the other way, you know, if none of them would ever genuinely want to know how my son is doing.

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  Black Sheep

  Maybe they got some of the points you were making. Just because they can't bring themselves to 'grow a pair' and out their doubts, doesn't mean they should shun you when there are no spies around.

  While their non-cult personality is having a day out, let them enjoy it. They might even get to like it.
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  4 sincere questions for those that believe there is a God

  by S EIGHT in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  greetings.. allow me to set the questions up.. after 30 years in the truth (i'm now late 40's) and having established the truth about the truth i consider myself agnostic going on atheist.. i struggle to believe there is a god when i observe life yet i try to convince myself there must be something out there.. here's the basis of my question: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-23583116 .

  in summary, 2 young boys have been killed by a snake that escaped from a pet store in canada.

  it made it's way up through the ventilation into the apartment they were staying in.

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  Black Sheep

  I just had a JW switch from being uncomfortable with Jehovah killing innocent babies to saying that it's ok. (non-cult personality vs cult personality)

  It would be nice to think I have made an impression, but they have too much to lose to ever admit to themselves that my family has scammed them into joining a cult run by nut jobs.
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  my latest UK car registration plates

  by bigmac in

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  Black Sheep

  Nice
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  Jehovah’s Witnesses under fire in Denmark

  by pallemar in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  http://www.dr.dk/nyheder/andre_sprog/english/2013/07/25/132435.htm.

  and today in another newspaper, they addet this picture .

  http://jyllands-posten.dk/opinion/?dt=true&articleid=5767677.

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  Black Sheep

  Tak skal du have
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  Alive and Well

  by LouBelle in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i want to thank you kind folk for caring about me!!!!.

  apologies for not checking in sooner, i have been so busy with the new job, and by the time evening comes i am so exhausted to log in from my laptop (that is sooooooooooooo slow).

  update: job is going well - i'm back in sales and with the community newspapers known as the fever.

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  Black Sheep

  Great news Lou. You sound much happier you did a few months ago.
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  40 Publishers

  by Nosferatu in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  heh, publishers..... was talking with my mother the other day.

  in the 17 years i've been out, my old congregation's publishers have drastically dropped.

  when i was going , we were in the high 80s for publishers.

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  Black Sheep

  One of the very first congregations in New Zealand has shut the doors and sold the KH